Baby on board?

Having a decision of having a baby is kind of principal. It is not something you could decide so easily.

As for myself, i have to admit a little bit of myself wanting to have a baby while a huge part of myself screaming that I am not ready yet.

While actually, this has been a burden for me since I have been married for a year and yet, my parents, grandparents and in laws have questioning the same old questions over and over again.

*sigh*

For me, having a baby is not a simple thing to do. You have to think and decide precisely about almost every aspects in your life, since you will be welcoming a new member of the family in your life.

You also need an adaptation. Start thinkig about what your child needs or wants in your home or in short: your daily environment have to be adjusted. You have to share your own comfort zone with your child.

*another sigh*

Well..


Someday, I promise to myself, I will be a loving mom to my children. When that time comes, it could be this year or next year or so, I hopefully will be ready.

Moving On

It is hard to move on from something we used to do or to be. Whether a habit or a heartbreak, moving on takes time and a great deal of acceptance.

I couldn't just simply say "move on! It's easy" and stuff coz I know it is not.

So for anyone of you who happen to read my blog right now and is experiencing the moving on process, there will be a time. The time when you are finally able to forgive and to forget for what has happened, learn to accept the fact as it is and finally you will be rewarded for your bravery of moving on:

A brand new, stronger you.

Until that time, my friend, my prayers and thoughts are with you =)

Happy 2013!!!

Hello happy people! How you guys all doing? I have to admit that I have abandoned my blog since November last year, well...

I don't want to blame my laziness in opening the computer-editing my fonts-pictures and stuff (oh well I have to admit I AM lazy). And not to mention the iStore provides me huge deal of many social sharing apps like Path, Instagram, Eyeem, and so on that make my laziness level rise each days.

However, I just want to greet you all a happy new year!! Since the end of the world is being postponed, why don't we start over our wishes and propose them into actions?

Stay happy and stay healthy!

My Life and those around me =)

Hi Hello!

I hope It's not too late for an introduction here x_x

This is me trying to give my best pose ;P

Full name: Elizabeth Angela Desyana
(Ellie in short ;))
DOB: 30/12/1987 (They say looks can be deceiving but I'm still 25 this year!)
Location: mainly in Jakarta, Indonesia ;)
Degree: Bachelor in Communication from LSPR =)
Status: a newly wife with no kids yet :P

This is my white-horse husband, Mr. DJ =)

Here are some pictures from my circle of life :):

• Family

Left to right: my brother, mr.DJ, me,
my granny, my gramps, my mom and my old man :)

What can I say about my family? They are truly the best. If I can give them award, I give them the most supportive, friendly family of the entire light-years =).

• My Best Girls

Gotarter!  ;P (left to right: olin, vivi,anin, icha,ucil, tinb aaand me!)

 

me and adella =)

me and angela =)

me and gracey =)

left to right: Yovi, tata and me =)

It's true that I have a lot of friends, but these pictures above shown my true best friends that always support me, be there whenever I needed them and vice versa aand say harsh advices when it is needed for me to be better and never leave even in my worst situations =)

In a very simple words, I consider myself as a lucky lady who always have great laughs that leads into a great life. It's all because of my beloved people around me. I truly thank God for them =)

Otomeeeee games!

There are times when people are experiencing such a dull situations in life. That moment when you just want to escape the world.


I had that moments as well.


I usually have my way of sweet escape thanks to an Iphone application that developed by Voltage Inc.


Say hello to otome games!!! \(xvx)/


What is otome game anyway?


"An otome game (乙女ゲーム otome gēmu?, lit. "maiden game") is a video game that is targeted towards a female market, where one of the main goals, besides the plot goal, is to develop a romantic relationship between the female player character and one of several male characters. This genre is most established in Japan, and is generally made up of visual novels and simulation games (particularly dating sims)." (wikipedia.com)


In short, it's basically a perfect game for an otaku like me! :P


I love reading mangas (japanese comics) and have tonsss of mangas in my home so playing an otome games is like seeing a little girl kinda dreams came true :P.


And the people from Voltage Inc. surely know how to pampered and make the best use of the credit card of their female otaku user. *le sigh*


Anyway! They have released 5 English subtitled otome games so far; Pirates in Love, Seduced in Sleepless City, In Your Arms Tonight, Be My Princess and My Forged Wedding.


Each title comes along with 6 choices of kakoii (handsome/cute) japanese man for us to experience their story.


They also included an epilogue, spin-off and sequel for each character. As always, when there is a happiness, there's money to pay (duh!). You have to pay 3.99 USD for each main story of each character, 2.99 USD for the epilogue/sequel, 1.99 USD for the spin-off.


So let say you want to buy the "My Forged Wedding" title, with a choice of 6 characters you have to purchase with an amount of 3.99 USD x 6 : 23.94 USD x_x (I can't believe I have spent THAT much for myself If i didnt do the math here. Freaking amazing)


Anyway, eventho it's such a big amount, for those otome lovers and otaku out there (especially for female and Iphone/Android users) this one is surely not to miss!

You can also check their FB page: Voltage Romance Sims

Happy hunting :P

a glimpse of Singapore thru my eyes :)

Many people have come here, either for shopping spree (most people I asked mentioned Orchard Road,Bugis Street and Haji Lane as their main reasons), food lovers, gambling (since their opening in 2010, Marina Bay Sands attract people, usually men, in using this reason to go here), play time (for the Universal Studio Singapore and Sentosa Island), family time (Jurong Bird Park, Botanical Garden and the latest opening of Gardens By The Bay), arts lovers (museums, cultural thingy: Chinatown, Malay Village, Little India), medical reasons aaand many more.

A lot of my friends and families have asked me a lot of questions about this country, since me and my loved ones got the chance to visit this country for a lot of times. (a friend of mine ever wondered why I love visiting Singapore so much :D)

Well actually, I do love Singapore. I plan to live there someday, probly on my retire days :P. I even chose Singapore as my honeymoon place :D. My best friend named Adella also stay here and I envy her so much! :P

Me and Adel :)

I love the way they keep their country clean and safe. I have to admit, I am quite the Global Warming activist. I do the  3R (reduce, reuse, recycle) in my everyday life. We also know that the level of crime in Singapore is low. I always feel safe in Singapore even at night :).

I love the uniqueness in their food. Here are some of my faves; their fried mussels kwey teao, fried bee-hoon, yong tew foo, oyster omellete, grilled chicken wings, beef/chicken satay, mee pok,chicken+saba fish, and for those who allow to eat non-halal food, the pork is another delicacy to enjoy :)

I loove their transportations so much! Most of my times in Singapore, i rarely found any traffic jams, because there are not so many cars (due to the high taxation for the owners). Their buses, taxis, and MRTs are the best. Singapore is not so big, thats why it is easy for you to travel through one place to another.

MRT map. Took it around 2010

I also love their tourist attractions like Marina Bay Sands (love their architecture so much!), Universal Studio (everybody's a child at hearts :)), Gardens by The Bay, Jurong Bird Park, Singapore Science Centre, red Dot Museums, Sentosa Island, Chinatown, Little India,Orchard Road, Bugis Street, Clarke Quay, what else? Singapore just got too many :)

My beloved family and me in front of Resort World Casino

There are also a lot of events that's attract people to come visit each and every year like the music festivals, Zouk, F1 race, Christmas event, Halloween event, Chinese New Year,  and for the Indonesian people time to visit Singapore is mainly on Eid Al Fitr holiday and school summer holiday. How I love holidays!:P

Michael Buble Concert in Singapore 2011

Halloween Time with my besties at Universal Studio in 2012

Christmas at ION Orchard 2010

This year on Dec, I have already bought a plane ticket to go back there again (I know what you guys are thinking xD) with my big family but I think next year I have to spend my money wisely and go to another place If the fate allows me to. Since the SGD currency is getting higher compare to Rupiah, duh! 

See you again pretty soon, Singapore! :P

Garlic Madness! Vampire go away :P

I love to eat :P
And I get fat easily, duh!


But still, if i get a lot of cash in my hands, I probly will spend it mostly on foods and books. :P


I'd like to share my experience of dining at Mad for Garlic, Grand Indonesia.


The place is best known for garlic lover bcs all foods are mainly cooked using garlic as a main ingredient! Heaven!!


Blame my absent-minded habit, I didn't remember the name I ordered x_x, but If you guys would like to order as well the same food as mine, you guys may show these pictures to the waiter/waitress. They surely will know :D

The white mussels bla bla bla, cooked with mayo+cheese+garlic I assumed, perfecto!

The blablah pizza with generous amount of shrimps, small-bite sized pineapple and cheese, just kill me if you couldnt find it on the menu, kay?